What is the spooning position?

Romantically lying against each other in the spooning position, also known as spooning, is not only a fun position to fall asleep, but also suitable for having sexual intercourse. The spooning position is the absolute favorite of many couples, and we think that is right!

How do you do the spooning position?

The arms of the partner in the back (often the man) should be wrapped around the person in front. This gives a nice feeling of romance and protection. Spooning offers the opportunity to have foreplay in a calm way, after which you can take off your clothes and have an exciting lovemaking session.

Spooning is often called the 'lazy position' because you and your partner can simply lie down in this position. Furthermore, only a small movement of the hips is required from one of the two partners.

When is the best time to do spooning?

Spooning is a great sex position when you and/or your partner are tired. Ideal when waking up, or when you both want to fall asleep right after sex.

Who is Spooning Spooning suitable for?

Spooning is a simple but fun sex position that is perfect for both straight and gay couples. This position is especially popular with people who enjoy cuddling and cuddle sex. Spooning is also suitable for couples who enjoy anal sex.

Did you know that spooning is a good position for pregnant women? In the pregnant women can lie on their side in the fetal position. This way the belly is on the other side of the giving partner, and is no longer in the way.

The Benefits of Spooning Position

• Very suitable for long and relaxed lovemaking sessions. Ideal for couples with little energy.
• After sex, you can fall asleep together in this position.
• Very comfortable position when other positions sometimes hurt.
• The giver can spoon-stroke the little spoon (the taker) all over the body.
• The taker can further satisfy herself during penetration.

The Disadvantages of Spooning Sex

• In this position the taker has little control over the pace.
• The taker cannot actually touch, see or caress the giver.
• In this position, kissing is difficult or impossible. That's why many consider it an unromantic position…

Variations on the spooning position

If the classic version of cowgirl style isn't exciting enough for you, then definitely try these variations!

• In this sex position, the woman (the taker) can bend over and lift her top leg up to her breasts. The big spoon (the giver) can then shift so that he lies more on the top hip than behind the other. This allows you to play with the depth of penetration and the pace.
• Spork: In this variation you actually turn 90 degrees, causing the giver to lie on his back and the taker to lie perpendicular to him.
• When the taker occasionally squeezes the buttocks firmly, the vagina or anus becomes tighter, providing extra stimulation for both partners.
• When the excitement is too great and you are about to come, you can start thrusting a little less quickly and hard as the giver. This will reduce your level of excitement a little and you will be able to hold this position longer.
• The taker (the woman in a heterosexual couple) can also turn 180 degrees, so that your faces are turned towards each other. This gives you the opportunity to look at each other and kiss.

Tips to make spooning even more fun

1. Make room

Put your pillows aside for a moment. This will give you all the space you need to stretch your arm above your head, as this will make you more relaxed and comfortable.

2. Prevent a sleeping arm

Lay in the normal spooning position, but put your head on a pillow (and not her neck) and let it rest there. Can you see the space between her neck and the mattress now? Instead of putting your arm - as usual - under her body and clamping your blood circle, it is best to put your arm straight out under the hole. You simply put your other arm around her body, and you can caress her with that.

3. Gently withdraw after sex

Does your partner fall asleep in a spooning position right after sex? Gently pull your arm back from under her body and make sure her pillow supports her head. You can still lie close to her. Sleep tight!

Additional attributes for spoon spoon

In the spooning position, you have both hands free to stimulate the taker's genitals even more. The penis can be stimulated even more with a penis masturbator and the clitoris with a special vibrator. Lubricant or massage is also always a good addition, especially if you penetrate your partner anally in this position.

So, now you know exactly what spooning is, what the pros and cons of this position are and what the best variations on this position are. Have fun!