Are you a fan of the cowgirl position? But do you sometimes find it a bit boring or monotonous? No problem, because we have the solution: reverse cowgirl! This variation on the cowgirl position is a surprisingly fun sex position that gives a unique twist to your sex life. Below we discuss what this position is exactly and look at the ins and outs of this daring, but fun position.

What is reverse cowgirl?

Reverse Cowgirl is a sex position where the woman sits on top of her partner, just like in the classic cowgirl. In this position, the woman must face the feet of the giving partner. The giving partner has a nice view of the backside of the taking partner.

Where does the name reverse cowgirl come from?

The name of the "reverse cowgirl" position refers to the inversion of the traditional cowgirl position. In this position, the person is on top like a riding cowgirl, but facing the opposite direction.

Who is reverse cowgirl suitable for?

In almost every lovemaking session of a heterosexual couple, the cowgirl position occurs. This can become boring or monotonous after a while.

Luckily, this position – even in the reverse version – is suitable for non-heterosexual couples. And when two men perform this position, we at Mr. Stiff think the name ' reverse cow boy' sounds better!

What does a man do during reverse cowgirl?

During the reverse cowgirl position, the partner on top is primarily in control. That partner (the taker) determines the pace and rhythm of intercourse.

The man (the giver) can quietly enjoy the beautiful view during this position. Because the man doesn't have to do much from below in this position, he can use his hands - or other sex attributes - to please or stimulate his partner on top.

What does a woman do during reverse cowgirl?

The partner on top (the taker) has complete control over the sex in reverse cowgirl. This partner determines the movements, the pace and the intensity of the penetration.

Reverse cowgirl is not only a favorite of many women because they have a lot of control in this position, but also because reverse cowgirl makes them reach orgasm faster. A win-win for both partners!

Benefits of reverse cowgirl

• Great view: Both partners have a great view of each other's bodies in this position. The giver can look at the taker's back, and the taker can look at the giver's legs and feet. This way you can increase the excitement between you and your partner.
• Deeper penetration: The position allows for deeper penetration, which provides additional pleasure for many couples.
• In reverse cowgirl, the woman (on top) has complete control over the intercourse.
• In the reverse cowgirl position, the clitoris of the woman on top is extra stimulated. She therefore comes more easily and enjoys sex even more. Great!
• The giving partner has his hands free in reverse cowgirl and can therefore please and spoil his partner even more.

Disadvantages of reverse cowgirl

• Less eye contact: It is a real challenge to have eye contact during reverse cowgirl. This is important for some people during sex.
• Requires coordination: It takes some practice to find the right rhythmic movements.
• Painful: This position can cause extremely painful situations with wild or wrong movements, especially for the male partner. So be careful.

Variations on reverse cowgirl:

• Leaning Reverse Cowgirl: The woman leans forward and rests on her hands or elbows. This provides a different 'angle' of penetration and variation.
• Hands on Buttocks: The giving partner places their hands on the receiving partner's buttocks for added support and intimate contact.

Nice tips for reverse cowgirl style:

1. Avoid using a lot of light during this position, especially if it is the first time for shy partners. This will take away any awkwardness.
2. Reverse cowgirl style doesn't require an athletic body, but be prepared for possible muscle cramps due to the strenuous movements. Especially for the partner on top.
3. At the beginning of this position, the active partner can gently insert the penis or strap-on dildo by hand to avoid pain.
4. To increase stimulation, the woman (the taker) can tilt her pelvis and lean forward to stimulate her clitoris more. Leaning back on her arms stimulates the G-spot more. Alternating between these two movements makes for a varied and fun sexual intercourse.

Nice attributes for reverse cowgirl:

• Place some comfortable pillows under the giving partner for extra support and comfort. After all, this partner will be carrying the taking partner.
• Create a romantic setting with mood lighting, dimmed lighting or candles. Double the fun guaranteed!
• Lubricant makes reverse cowgirl even more exciting and fun. Be careful with excessive use of that substance, because that increases the chance of a penile fracture. And that is not fun for any partner …

So, now you know exactly what reverse cowgirl style is, what the pros and cons of this position are and what the best variations on this position are. Have fun!