Sex is the favorite activity of most couples. It is a fun way to please each other and strengthen your bond. For all couples who sometimes find their sex life monotonous or boring, standing sex is a good solution and an exciting alternative. It adds that little bit of extra spice to your sex life.

What is the position: Standing sex against the wall?

Standing sex against the wall is a position where both partners are standing up and not lying on a bed like most positions. The person leaning against the wall is the giver and the other (the taker) stands in front of it. Standing sex can be done in different positions and gives more variety to your sexual adventures. Moreover, this position can also be easily done in places where there is no bed. For example in the elevator at work ;)

How do you fuck standing up?

Preparation: Choose a suitable location where you feel comfortable and have the privacy you need. Make sure the wall is strong enough to support the weight of both partners.

Positioning: The person leaning against the wall places his or her hands on the wall at shoulder height. The taking partner stands in front of it. During sex, both partners should move their bodies towards each other at the rhythm and pace they prefer.

Legs and hips: To really stand comfortably, both partners should bend their legs a little. The giver (usually the man) who is leaning against the wall with his hands can tilt his hips forward a little. This allows for better access.

More romance: Standing up against a wall is a great way to make eye contact with your partner and increase romance. Using your hands to explore and stimulate each other’s bodies also adds to the intimacy.

Good communication: As with any sex position, communication is essential. Discuss with your partner what you like and what you don't. It is also best to keep communicating during sex to make the experience pleasant for both of you.

Benefits of standing sex:

Freedom: Standing lovemaking against the wall can be done at any time and anywhere. This creates a sense of spontaneity and freedom. You are not forced to be in the bedroom with this position.

Variety: Standing lovemaking adds a lot of variety to your life under the sheets, keeping your relationship in bed exciting and thrilling.

Very intimate: In this position you stand close to your partner and make a lot of eye contact. That is why this position is very intimate and romantic.

Disadvantages of standing sex:

• Physical strain: Standing sex can be very tiring for some people, especially for the person leaning against the wall. To be able to hold this position longer, make sure that both partners are standing comfortably and relaxed.
• Not just in the bedroom: This position is not just done in bed, but for example against a wall in the bathroom. Unfortunately, not every location is suitable for standing lovemaking against the wall, so you can only do this position in limited situations.

Tips for standing sex:

Exciting elements: Add some fun elements during sex, such as whispering naughty words, kissing each other or light touches and caresses, to increase the excitement.

Safety first: Make sure the location is safe and avoid risky places to prevent accidents. For example, be careful with a wet bathroom floor or a staircase. Prevention is better than cure!

Attributes for standing sex:

Cushions: Place cushions against the wall or on the floor for extra comfort.

Massage oil: Add some massage oil to spice up sex and make it glide more smoothly.

Mirrors: If there are any in the room, we definitely recommend standing in front of a mirror. This will spice up your lovemaking!

So, now you know exactly what standing sex is, what the pros and cons of this sex position are and what the best tips for this position are. Have fun!